See, I never got that kind of reaction from guys when I was younger... I was the quintessential tomboy that no boy ever looked at twice... it wasn't till I got 'grown' that it started happening and I was like "WHOA... CHILL!"... I just wasn't used to it so it made me really uncomfortable to have dudes coming at me on some Rico Suave shit, and naturally I was sus-pi-ci-ous... 'back then they didn't want me, now I'm hot and they all on me'... lol... I feel you Mike Jones! I agree w/you on the first motive FOR SURE... you can usually spot those ones pretty early on, they get ghost pretty quickly once they see that shit ain't workin. But I'm not so sure about the second... I think some guys just think a certain kind of woman is used to having lots of attention lavished on her and that she expects that from all the guys she deals with... they really dig the girl and wanna get with her but their approach is just all off... a guy asked me (and some of these 'guys' I'm mentioning in this topic are the same person... go figure) if I liked to be jocked... I thought that was a really strange question... so if my answer was 'yes' he would have started putting 'the charm' on even thicker..? and thus further illustrating my point about how I think that shit tends to be insincere and an act in the first place..? And then there are guys that are just trying to do whatever it takes to land the 'cute girl'... the trophy, I guess. I'ono... ask anyone who knows me and they'll tell you that I'm the sweetest/coolest girl ever... I just appreciate cats that shoot straight with me and don't get all out of hand when we first meet.