Are you more over a giver or receiver? Oh, while you are in here you might as well read this. Well, my girlfriend is most definitely a giver. Which is cool and all, but I want to at least let her feel what it's like to be on the other end. I can't ever bring up the topic either on why she won't let me finger/eat her out. She gets pissed and I end up stopping, because I don't want her even more mad. We've never really got to talk about this issue, so I don't really know why she doesn't want me to do it. [dunno] Should I just stop even bringing it up? I mean, it feels good to please a woman. This sounds corny, but I sucked on her tittays and she said she liked it. I'm thinking, well if you let me do something else you will enjoy that even MORE. *shakes head* Also, she thinks that I just wanna do it so I can go brag to my friends about it. I'm like what the fuck, because I don't tell them anything. She has told them more than I have. I don't wanna just dive in, because I feel that if I don't make it she will get upset or something. It's hard to explain, I WANT to do it, but I can live with it if we don't do it when we hang out. I'm positive that it will eventually, so oh well. Any suggestions to what I should do? Thanks in advance.