Why do men approach women, make conversation, compliment her, then have the audacity to say "so let me give you my number........." My first thought is: Are you f-ing crazy? My second thought is he has no intention of pursuing anything, and just wants to selfishly feed his ego at my expense. So, should a woman ever really make the first call? Especially when she was approached by the guy? Based on my research [look], I find that guys love to say "I'd like a woman to pursue me" but I think that's a big stinky load of horseshit. I think men like the attention and like an opportunity to be lazy, but will quickly lose interest in that woman, than if they did the chasing. I figure that a guy has to realize, "Hey, I like her, so I'm going to put in the work to get her." So, if a woman does all the work for them, there's no guarantee he was even feeling you in the first place. I used to think there were no rules to dating, but screw that. I've realized first-hand that if you make that call, say bye bye to the possibility of anything worthwhile. Am I wrong? I'm really intersted in what the guys have to say (be honest!).