Discussion in 'Ladies Lounge' started by GaLaTeA, Jul 8, 2012.
What are the basics/rules, etc?
And, why is this "girl code" so important to ladies?
ok, from an outsiders(males) point of view, it doesnt seem like girls have a code... if there is one, the ladies seem to have no problems breaking this code for personal gain lol
Women are more loyal to men then each other.
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No moral compass there, ha..
That's true, since most women look (even) at their closest girlfriends as competition.
I gotta agree with my little nephew Bustalot on this one.
Hoes don't have no code. it's every bitch for herself and if your man choose me, then so be it bitch...lol
that's how hoes act for the most part.
most girls i know dont have female friends....
all ya bitches are crazy.....
i say bitches with love
What about ladies, not smores? Can the same be applied to them as well?
That's because guys make more reliable and honest friends.
by default cuz ya hate each other....
so, so-far weve established that the "girl code" is flimsy at best and gets broken consistently.
And yet it still exists, not to mention we still haven't established the rules of it..
santa exists as a fictional character
the girl code exists as a fictional idea
I really need someone to explain the 'girl code' to me as well, as I don't know anything about it, lol. As a girl myself, I've never used one (a code). I am loyal to all friends, but at the same time don't put up with bullshit. Having said that, the person I am closest to is male (and not gay). I find I get much more valuable advice from him than any (biased) female I know.
Women are catty and jealous by nature, and this includes their own friends, that is true. Not all, of course, I like to think I am an exception, but I'm sure I have my tendencies. I still tend to act on principle and in a logical manner,as opposed to emotion most of the time. (lol@most. What can I say, I'm female, haha)
Ultimately, loyalty and support are the main tenets.
Also, can't speak for all "girls", but within my click we have a STRICT "no homie hopping" code. If you date one of us, the rest are off limits.
Ah, ty for the clarification.
saw this on FB....
^Oddly, it's not far from truth in the least bit.
Scary, how accurate it is.
lol all n' all woman and men are trifling blunders! Cant trust nobody, sad to say.
yes you can.
but if you've let people down from a moral standpoint in the past and you've had people let you down from a moral stand point. you can probably go through a crisis and really have to do some soul searching.
re-evaluate who you are, where you stand and what's important. like laying down the foundation for your spirit. what is it being built upon, sand? rock?
is everybody super-self serving and out to get each other, constantly one upping each other for their personal gain? that's a pretty bleak outlook and can lead to a joyless existence. even thinking like that is depressing.
when you make mistakes, mess up, or do things you're not proud of most of the time you hurt yourself more in the long run. and you break that trust and bond you didn't know you had with yourself. you lose that trust you have with yourself which severely affects your relationship with others.
if you don't trust yourself, how can you trust anyone else? you gotta earn it back. and it's something you work on everyday. when you fully trust yourself, you get that genuine joy. that money can amplify, but never buy.
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