on some real shit, if you got those deep emotions and a good memory, hit your exes up with positive poems about the time you spent together. i send some even on some r rated sexual tip, and they want more. beware of those who will show others and make fun or whatever, but if she's real she will save that shit and keep it in her breast pocket. i'm talking maturity here. works wonders, gets the energy flowing. women like that stuff too.