...are you actively involved in your son(s)' lives? Whether you're with the mother or not, you should be... there is nothing I hate seeing more than seeing a male child around nothing but women all the time... constantly picking him up and babying him when he's able to walk and run... as a man and as the father, you should be puttin' a stop to that... when a boy sees no positive, strong male adult figures in his life, he has nothing to rely on for manhood grooming... he will be conditioned to follow the mannerisms of those around him... particularly WOMEN... I won't get into the whole debate of what causes homosexuality, because there is nothing really concrete about that... but I do know that nurture does play a big role in personality and mannerisms... and there are too many effeminate boys and men walking around because they've have no father figures in their lives... or fathers who never cared to raise them and show them the way. We need MEN to be leaders of the community and show boys how to be MEN... so they won't be relying on women for support and direction... so they will be able to solve problems like a man should. Thank you for support. Good day.