Ever dealt with a dude who talked so much shit about how they can put it down...

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  1. MISSKEYdaQUEEN

    MISSKEYdaQUEEN Watch the black panther..

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    how they dick is so good...
    how they can make you splash waterfalls....
    how they can break yo back....

    and then...they give it to yah...

    and you wanna laugh when its over!!!

    Do you?

    Do you get pissed?

    Do you point and laugh!??

    Do you call them a punk ass beeotch and throw some pink panties at them and say GETDAFUKOUT????
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  2. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Don't even get me started on this one *smh*

    Its like someone bragging to you about what a great singer/rapper they are... and they have you all hyped and expecting to hear Beyonce or whoever your favorite rapper is or some shit. And then when they finally do perform... you're waiting for them to blow you away with they're skills... but instead its like... :) uuuuuuummm [fuc] I thought I was supposed to be seeing stars [nonono] you lyin summummabitch! :getyou:

    If I didn't really care much for him, I would let him know exactly how whack he was for that shit and tell him to get the hell on.

    Braggin about your skills is a HUGE turn-off to me. You'de be better off just letting the other person be pleasantly surprised than hyping them up and ending up being a big damn disappointment.

    [fu]
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  3. yall fall right into the trap we do dat jus to get da pussy we dont care what yall think afterwards LOL

    thx for this thread ima go back to dat method
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  4. Odd Man Outt

    Odd Man Outt President of the South

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    ^lol

    but check it..women be frontin like they aint neva had a nigga brag on they dick and back it up tho..

    its 2nd nature to brag if women always like how u slang dick..cuz once u start breaking backs and tearing up walls, having women call u for a dick down, u want the world to know that you're appreciated for the work u put in

    in the words of weezy:

    "honor my pole like a flag on the end bitch"

    ha
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  5. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    A.S.O.T., I have no doubt that men brag about their sex game as a way to entice women into having sex with them.

    But lets not pretend that men, in general, do not care about what their partners think of their ability to perform/satisfy or that MOST men only use that tactic with women who they don't generally care about after they have sex with them.

    Do I really need to show you my damn spam inbox full of "male performance/endowment improvement" advertisements? The market for male sexual enhancement products is off the damn chain. Viagra anyone?

    Every woman knows that the quickest, easiest way to bruise a man's pride is to insult his pipe game... or to tell him that his "little" dick ain't hittin on SHIT (not that I agree with nor condone that tactic - but sometimes its the damn truth).

    Men are extremely sensitive about that shit... and you know this as well as I do.

    Even if he fronts and acts like he dont give a fuck... or if he generally doesn't care about the woman he slept with... a man still wants to feel like he's King Dick and can move mountains with his sexual ability. Keep it real.

    He might not even care what that particular woman thinks... so long as she keeps that shit to herself. But let word get out that he's wack in bed... or let it be a woman he DOES care about [pleasing]... a mufucka is gonna feel SOME kinda way about that. Am I lying?

    I'm not saying you have to have exceptional skill... hell, truth be told, women don't generally expect you to be able to put it down like a porn star... nor do they care that much, if they really like/love you. I'm just saying, don't set up the expectation and then fail to perform. You'd be better off just keeping your mouth shut and letting the chips fall where they may.

    That's like a chick bragging to you about how "Super Head aint got shit on her" when it comes to giving oral sex. And then you let her give you head... and her skills are average, at best. Under any other cicumstance, you would have been satisfied... not blown away, but satisfied. Would gave her an "A" for effort and been cool with what she WAS able to do. But by her raising the bar of your expectations, and then falling way short of the goal she claimed oh so vigourously that she was capable of reaching... you're gonna be way more critical and subsequently disappointed than you otherwise would have been.
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  6. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Perhaps... that hasn't been my experience though. The best sex I ever had was with a man who never bragged about his skills. Actually, he started making references to how good he was one time, but I changed the subject... he never brought it up again after that. I think he got the hint.

    Bragging can also be a way to cover up sever insecurity. Overcompensation.
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  7. Odd Man Outt

    Odd Man Outt President of the South

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    yea either or

    just open up and hope for the best..
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  8. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Men overcompensate when their masculinity is threatened, Cornell study shows

    ITHACA, N.Y. -- Threaten a man's masculinity and he will assume more macho attitudes, according to a study by a Cornell University researcher.

    ...I found that if you made men more insecure about their masculinity, they displayed more homophobic attitudes, tended to support the Iraq War more and would be more willing to purchase an SUV over another type of vehicle," said Robb Willer, a sociology doctoral candidate at Cornell. Willer is presenting his findings Aug. 15 at the American Sociological Association's 100th annual meeting in Philadelphia...

    ...Masculine overcompensation is the idea that men who are insecure about their masculinity will behave in an extremely masculine way as compensation...


    I'm just sayin.
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  9. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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  10. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    lol.. I love you OMO. *hug*
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  11. Odd Man Outt

    Odd Man Outt President of the South

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    i tend to stay away from these studies and stats cuz 9 times outta 10, they dont study my breed..they find square ass niggas and add up a buncha numbers and walah..instead of threatening a man's masculinity, how about giving him a blowjob and being a good girl

    i think women look deeper into these kinda thangs than men..u honestly dont think some men really know how to back up their talk? every woman aint got a bad sex life, and every man with a good stroke is not humble about it..

    excuse my macho attitude but thats how i feel tight..
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  12. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Word up. Do your thing.

    But did you interpret my posts to mean I was suggesting that most women have bad sex lives? *eyes bugging*
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  13. Odd Man Outt

    Odd Man Outt President of the South

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    oh nah..i was just sayin, SOMEBODY gotta be gettin some good dick..so dont be too quick to think its just the macho attitude talkin, u feel me

    but on the real, i feel what yall sayin tho..if u keep gettin disappointed by these big mouth niggas u gone feel that way..i'm just sayin, keep the faith lol
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  14. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    I agree. I know I have a lil swag about myself, too... and it damn sure doesn't stem from insecurity. But I don't go around bragging about what I can do... cause I don't see the need or the point in doing so. And just my luck I'll happen upon a cat who I hook up with who ain't impressed and my whole little face will be cracked... lol.


    And this topic was specifically about men who talk the talk and CAN'T walk the walk. I believe some men genuinely believe they are better in bed than they are... and some of that stems from the fact that they [believed they] performed very well with/for other partners in the past (whether real or imagined). But what worked well with him for one or a few women, may not work work very well with the next. You might have been King Dick to your last girl... but the next might think you're ehh... so so.

    And I believe some men are insecure about their size/skills, so they hype themself up in order to overcompensate for what they feel they lack.

    I realize that doesn't apply to all, though.

    It's usually the ones who bark/talk the loudest and most often about how great they are that are the most insecure, though, IMO.

    We're just dialoging... you're entitled to your opinion just as I am.
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  15. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    Oh, a lot of women are having great sex. I know this. I don't think all or even most men are whack or subpar in bed, by any stretch. Im talking specifically about the braggarts who turn out to be duds.

    Not always, but I'd say more often then not, if he is bragging excessively (as Misskey implied in the first thread), that is usually the case. I think that applies to areas other than sex, as well... and women do it too!

    Not my struggle... lol. I'm just giving my input on the subject.
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  17. i understand what you are saying and insulting a dudes pipe game feels like a off guard low blow but if you women didnt always expect so much than maybe things wouldnt have to be this way...in other words, u put us in the position to make up things so u couldnt believe otherwise
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  18. Odd Man Outt

    Odd Man Outt President of the South

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    oh aight..gotchu

    i just felt the need to stick up for the braggin types..felt like all of us were under attack lol
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  19. Dark_Sun

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    I know I brag a lot about it on the internet but I am way over the top with it though and I try to make it comical more than anything. Sometimes we may joke around with it though. Do women still look at that negatively or does it strictly depend on the person doing it? I think it depends on the person because you take a very ugly person and you take an attractive person and they both make a sexual comment to you. It can be intepreted two entirely different ways. One can be looked at as welcomed flirting and the other could be sexual harassment. I think the same goes with bragging about it and depending on the frequency it is discussed.
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  20. hahaha
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