drew's help to get girls - advice that actually works

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  1. judaman

    judaman New Member

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    A response from drews other thread of girl advice. I have a real issue with horrible advice being given when it comes to picking up girls, then guys go out try hard and get no real improvements, as i was there few years ago.

    I used to give and follow the same advice of "just to this gym/club club on this day all the single easy chicks are there" 3-4 years ago. I then changed my way of looking at it and well i'm not going to even list how many or who i've been with because no one would believe me, but most importantly it made me get the girl i wanted. i never settle anymore.

    Okay so here...

    Most guys always think, "where" is the best place to get easy because that's the best place to be! I thought this myself a while ago as well.

    THE WHERE: When you focus on the "where" you really aren't choosing the girl you want, at the easy places you're settling for whatever easy/drunk/low self esteem/rebound/etc girl majority of the time. You aren't using any skill or developing any new skill doing this. So your not improving your game at all, its plateaued at this point. Going to an "easy" place and flirting with 30 girls will usually always end up positive for you. if you're all about having sex and sex only with the so-so's this is perfect, go right ahead and do this. But if you want the ridiculous hot girls , also said as "girls who dont party much", and hard to gets - focusing on the "where" is the last thing you want to do.

    THE HOW: Knowing "where" to meet girls has nothing to do with "how" to meet girls, when you focus on the "how" you DO pick up girls at college, work, grocery store, etc. aka where ever the FUCK you want. The "how" actually IMPROVES your game unlike the "where". The "how" explains exactly why hot girls are attracted to guys, and its fairly easy to portray ALL the those characteristics without being really good looking or rich. I live in south beach and see 200K+ cars every block from people who live here. So take my word for it and start focusing on the "how".

    Moral of story: do you want to choose the girl you want or just settle for whatever you can get?

    ##### IF WHAT YOUR DOING ISN'T WORKING TRY THIS OUT ######


    HERE IS A TEST I SUGGEST YOU DO FOR MORE EXPERIENCE

    For a month stop going out to the bar/clubs with guys - start making friends with girls for the next month and tell them about a really cool bar, as in girls drink free, beer pong and you will whoop her ass, most amazing pizza ever they have, etc.. make sure you describe a good attribute to them not just "wanna go out to xyz bar" very boring and you give her a choice, she really shouldnt have a choice because it sounds so awesome.

    To get the friends: start up conversation anywhere you see any girl hot or not, get her facebook/phone. build rapport then invite as a friend to bar, tell her to come with her friends. its very low pressure and you gotta hype the bar up.(theres a TON more on befriending but this post is already long)

    Usually starting out you can get 6 girls(they always bring friends why wont come alone) and you go with a guy friend. So take a step back and realize that:

    1. you are at a bar with 6 girls
    2. the girls don't know each other but you are friends with them all, shows you're cool/down to earth, not looking to fuck only, very positive they will hang with you again.
    3. the other girls in a bar look at TWO things. they look at girls outfits and guys with girls.

    You will be the center of attention at that bar by the girls that didnt come to meet you. You instantly become interesting to many other girls there.

    At this point your confidence is THROUGH THE ROOF.

    Starting a simple conversation with other girls in the bar once they have seen your status will be very good, invite them over to the overall group, and have some fun. Stop flirting with them all until your social skills are up to par WITH groups of girls, because its very different then with groups of guys.

    I WILL STATE THIS AGAIN: its an experience test its not a 'oh lemme make 6 friends to get a girl to like me'. You start to figure out what girls like and don't like. Start to understand why girls in a bar aren't giving you attitude or blowing you off as they normally do sometimes, start to build up social intelligence with women that you didnt have before, and the list goes on and on..

    Moral of the test is for you to visually see the power of value a guy can have, in this case we used girls around us as the value NOT LOOKS OR MONEY. Saw how it drastically changed the situation to your advantage.
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  2. Tom Truckle

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    so you shouldn't to go to bars to meet girls that you want to be in a relationship with

    but

    you're supposed to bring a bunch of girls to a bar so that the other girls there think you are interesting


    this advice is not poppin
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  3. mapleleaf

    mapleleaf bumpin onyx in the jag

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    good read, i agree with most of this
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  4. Carpathian

    Carpathian New Member

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    Lmao this sounds like advice from.a virgil. The key to having game is to not worry about having game. Niggas who are consantly worrying bout what the female is thinkin and nervous about what to say next and id they spittin corny shit have the worst time baggin heauxs.

    Trill shit

    Women are in love with charisma and confidence in a man. They like funny niggas too but not clown ass dudes.


    It aint about who u go to a bar too.. Damn this nigga sayin go to a bar and pick up chicks by going wit six chicks..

    Nigga why dont you bag them six individually..fuck u soundin fruity
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  5. Carpathian

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    Of course you gotta hit on em at other places too. Laundromats walmarts..nigga i bagged a bitch at.the smoke shop.

    U gotta peep if she smart or dumb. If she look like a dumb broad ive succesfully puled the fake accident to catch her attention..

    Ex. At a hotel in t dot last year this bitch was fine at the vendin machines and ice machine. She smelled like roses & peach shnapps and i started swearin at the pop mschine cuz it fucked me over (but it didnt). She looked over laughed a lil gave me a smile. I knew iw as in n i saw her drinkin so i was like by anu chance you know any good.clubs or bars kn the area.. She said she was on a trip wit her girls in mtl and they were peepin a club.. We linked digiys me n my niggas reached n o bagged her brappp. Still fuxk her on occasion when i reach mtl.


    But ye different tactics for a different bitch

    If u tryna wife up i gotta approach a bitch clean and respectful

    Ill hola
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  6. Tom Truckle

    Tom Truckle Re:Member

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    carpathian is the truth right now

    "i'm not cool. i really want to be cool though. what should i do to be cooler? should i go out more, and if so, where? should i start drinking more and hanging out in spots i wouldn't ordinarily go, or try and approach and talk to girls more? and how? or should i just continue posting on message board forums searching for advice on how to be cooler?"...etc.

    this guy will obvs never be cool.

    if you're constantly worried about how to get girls, you've already lost.
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  7. Static Legacy

    Static Legacy 3 times of a lotta shit

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    Juda's on point for sure, definitely agree its the how not the where. If you're always sharp and ready to get some digits or w.e, it doesn't matter time or place. It could be at the bar dressed sharp, or walking around on campus casual as fuck, you always have to be ready.
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  8. judaman

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    I didnt think I had to state the obvious of me giving ONE example of the THOUSANDS available to get some girl friends in your life, Having girl friends are fun as hell and they always wanna hook you up with their friends AND a ton of other positive attributes most guys dont even realize because of their ego.

    Saying "bitch you need to man up" does ZERO for guys who have anxiety/courage problems with girls, and many guys do - shit I still do in some cases.

    Come on guys, read and think logically for once and dont just read to figure out some possible way you can link retardation to a post someone makes.
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  9. larry word

    larry word get sauced n dip

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    most of the underlying advice (enter a venue with girls; don't merely ask "wanna go to a bar"; you can pick up girls anywhere; etc.) sort of makes sense but all the extra specific shit gets pretty wack imo.

    also with regular night game you can be a little more systematic than with day game (non-club/bar spots)
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  10. Carpathian

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    Shouts to tom truckz

    Static i agree with what hes sayin u should always be ready to bag.


    But the whole bring 6 random chicks to a bar just to hit on oyher chicks is weird. If u randomly meeting a bitch and get her digits im sure she wouldnt be stoked that when you go out you bring 6 other bitches.

    Just bag 6 seperately and repeat process
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  11. Carpathian

    Carpathian New Member

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    Judaman a fuckin goofy ass nigga.


    Smh you prob never get pussy.

    Worst advice ever mannn if u need to be told to pick up bitches elsewhere then clubs..u dumb lmao



    How old r u, real talk
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  12. BITmafakka

    BITmafakka GS palmin' the m1 garand

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    Well, as a dude that has alot of girlfriends i can say that going out with a bunch of girls can catch you attention but it wont do it all.
    You have to be able to build on that attention and read the person you want to build with, make sure that you find some mutual ground.

    The absolute most important part about bagging a girl is to be able to read them and to dare to make a move at the right moment.

    I've fucked up a few possible relationships cause i was either moving too fast or too slow, you gotta have your perception game on point and pick the moment when she's interested and wants you to make a move.

    Too soon = you're desperate
    Too slow = you're not interested


    Most girls usually dont smash right away if they're interested in you, but if you wait too long you'll (and by that i mean SHE WILL) lose the physical attraction.

    It's alot about finding the right situation too, in situations where someone feels scared/vulnerable/full of adrenaline they're more often then not open to take chances.


    People actually did an experiment with this, they let x dudes walk over 2 different bridges, half over a wide, safe bridge and half over a real scrangly thin and unsafe bridge.

    At the other side stood a hot girl, and more people that just walked the unsafe bridge dared to ask for her number
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  13. Eyerate

    Eyerate The Definition of Real..

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    this thread is full of a wealth of greatly useful and vetted information from highly qualified individuals. tell us more, skilled artisans.

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  14. judaman

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    The best thing about giving advice for picking up women on a forum from a person who has been in the scene for a while is the people who respond back with the usual "thats wack as fuck, you get no girls" are the ones who have an ego so big enough that they will NEVER teach themselves anything about "getting women" they instinctively think its part of being a MAN, and getting any advice on it will make them less of a man.

    The people who give advice (ones who have been in the scene) dont give a shit about their ego and try everything known to MAN to narrow down everything there is to know bout attracting women and making it an actual science. We don't just read something, not try it or have a knowledge of it and say "thats fawking wack, you a cornball"
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  15. Tom Truckle

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    just stop
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    Judaman works for bangbros and lives in miami fyi


    Ima read this in a lil bit juda
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  17. Eyerate

    Eyerate The Definition of Real..

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    its going to be really difficult to take something like this serious... especially after you just told these guys to lay a bunch of groundwork to take SIX girls to a bar... in order to draw the attention of other girls... at a fucking bar... :funny:
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  18. Judgekure

    Judgekure 48÷2(9+3)=288 tbh

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    Wow...Are there actually people in this thread questioning Judaman?


    Get the FUCK OUTTA HERE. Take this advise, write it down and memorize it. Dude does this shit for a LIVING, you stupid fucks.
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  19. Tom Truckle

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    aren't u the one in tc sitting in a dark room next to his comp 49 hrs / day?

    is bangbros real to you?
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  20. Eyerate

    Eyerate The Definition of Real..

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    before someone mistakenly takes this as gospel, it should be noted that juda does coding and webmaster work for a porn company. lets not get fucking stupid here. dude does HTML for a living.

    look, if you feel like laying groundwork on 6 bitches to get them into a bar with you so you can use those 6 to make other random bar bitches jelly, more power to you my friend. but lets not sit here and pretend like that isnt some shit you'd hear stiflers little brother and his friends theorycrafting in some basement in the next american pie flick :funny:
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