Does a loving God care where u spend eternity? Does a loving God forgoe rebuke and allow you to fullfill the lusts of the flesh? Does a loving God punish or correct you when your doing something wrong? Would a loving God try to guide you away from negetive promoting lifestyles or actions? Does a loving God love their childen unconditionally? Does a loving God allow the sun to shine on both his friends and his enemies? Eill a loving God respect your wishes, even if your wishes are self destructive? Would a loving God force you to spend eternity with someone you hate? Of course not. God cannot force u to follow him into the path a of righteousness. If your wish is to dislike God, our God is such a loving God he would respect your wishes to live in eternal seperation from him. Even though it pains him to do so. Thats real love.