Black Women & Hair

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  1. tight-eyes

    tight-eyes Such a F*cking Lady!

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    I dont believe the choice to wear hair weaves necessarily means a woman lacks self-confidence, although I know it does for some.

    I think a lot of women just like the convenience and versatility... some women can only achieve a certain hairstlye with a weave, but it doesnt mean they dont like their own hair.
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  2. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    ebay huh? wowsers, you bout to put me up on some new new...

    ditto on the get-up-go.

    How bout that jump-in-the-pool-come-out-still-lookin-luxurious hair lol...

    dudes don't understand. its not about vanity. i cut my natural hair all the time. i PREFER to wear my hair short (its HOT in california!). It just takes a lot to maintain. too much stress on the hair...


    as far as all the other stuff mentioned in the thread...like makeup, nails, contacts...ect. But at the same time, you can look at all the famous pin up girls that duded oogle and argue that duded DO like what's fake.

    I guarantee that every female model/video chick/porn star/celeb has all of the above and more, bc she prolly has some plastic parts. But no one says anything about that.
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  3. Hash Seeds

    Hash Seeds New Member

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    I dont' know about other guys, but I know at least to me it's a turn off when a girl has fake boobs/ass implants. I'm not saying women aren't beautiful without it, but I'm saying a lot of women ARE beautiful without those things.
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  4. Ignorant

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    I was describing a correlation between lack of exercise due to concerns of sweating out perms/hair dos and obesity... it holds weight... literally... diet is important, but if you work out enough, you can eat whatever you want.
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  5. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    well in your response, i see you're utilizing your right to exaggerate. In my initial reply to you, I was joking. so we're even I guess.



    @ Hash: I feel you. Women can be beautiful with or without augmentation.

    BUT that doesn't negate the fact that the majority of women that are considered the standard for beauty in America [ESPECIALLY in pop culture] possess the very thing that many men claim they dislike. I know plenty of dudes that would smash Kim Kardashian, or Keri Hilson, or Gloria Velez. All of those women are plastic plastic plastic. there's nothing WRONG with that. but lets just be honest here. Just because you can appreciate a woman in her "natural" state does not mean you prefer it.

    But I have been wrong before...
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  6. L u c y

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    I love my fro, love it!! But I'm mixedrace so have long hair anyways. Some of my friends aren't so lucky, one of them in particular comes to mind - Lorna a beautiful black girl who's hair point blank refuses to grow. We've been friends since we were litttle girls and she used to cry about it, should I condemn her for her weave HELL NO.
    Laydees if it looks good and makes y'all feel good rock it.........
    P/S Men could never grasp the effort us women go to with our hair so it probably does seem crazy the lengths some of us go to to protect it
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  7. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    ^^right.

    i have no problem admitting the depth of my vanity [insert laughs here]

    thinking of trying out wigs for the first time. its so gosh darn hot in Cali and the tips arent rollin in like they used to. I dun have time tryin to spend 1 or 2 hunnit on a pack of hair. then the versatility of it...you can take the sucker off and put it back on whenever! sounds hella smart to me...

    i hope i don't get sucked into the Beyonce / Tyra Banks world of bad lace front wigs/weaves....

    :eek:
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  8. L u c y

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    rofl @the ad at the top of this page "clip in hair extensions, full head sets, DIY (????), volume packs,highlights?streaks kits" damn adverizers don't waste a hot minute.
    DONT think about it Samii loool
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  9. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    right! "get healthy smooth hair without chemicals"

    ha! my ass...they're never met my hair before.

    idk lucy. the wig thing sounds too appealing...i think imma use one at my job interview on monday hahaha
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  10. L u c y

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    ^pics??? lmao
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  11. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    lmfao. literally.

    sike! My job interview is to cocktail at my local strip club. No way I'm coming from behind my cloud of anonymity hahaaa
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  12. L u c y

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    cant fault ya for that. Good luck anyways..........
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  13. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    gracias! Lets hope the money is better
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  14. Ignorant

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    Can you give a killer lap dance? You already got the dope up top visual going on.
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  15. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    umm prolly not LoL. I've seen the way those strippers "dance"...yea im not cut out for that shit. I took a pole dance "fitness" class...shit is hard!! way harder than it looks. And I like to work smart, not hard LoL

    I'm a hustler. I'm way better at selling stuff. That why I love cocktailing. You flash a smile, talk some talk, next thing you know the dude is buying a bottle and you got a $200 tip. It's not always like that, but its easy math.
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  16. Ignorant

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    I have no idea what "cocktailing" is... I know what a cocktail is, but I've never heard that word in that tense before... I thought it was slang for bartender, but now I'm all confused... all I need to know is do you get to show massive cleavage and legs?
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  17. Ignorant

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    I read your post again and I think I get it... so you're not like a traditional bartender who stands behind a bar... you actually have a post somewhere like the flower lady and you offer bottles of bubbly for some loot? Okay, I think I got it...
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  18. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    cocktailing = the act of cocktail waitressing = what i do for money.

    as far as the post thing, kind of. I move around. I see people that look like they have deep pockets. I offer them drinks, cigarettes, cigars. vices.

    I bring em the goods, they give me the money, plus a lil extra para mi.

    I love what I do. I just hate the current setting in which I do so. I cocktail at a casino right now. Apart of my job description is to give out free soft drinks to commoners [aka broke ppl]. I effing hate it. I have to spend so much time making sodas for broke ppl that don't understand that you tip for the SERVICE not based off the price of the product, that I don't get a chance to really hustle and make money.

    Blah. I think I'll be able to come up quick in a nudie bar. Wish me luck for Monday...
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  19. mr.rip

    mr.rip New Member

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    you are ridiculously beautiful sammii you would make a killing in there haha.


    You Sincere, and Tight -Eyes would shut it down and have it on lock. throw S*T*A*R*M in the mix and ITS A RAP.
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  20. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    lol you foolish. i got the gig, anyway. i start tomorrow. Hopefully i'll make some decent money...I got a Vegas trip comin up and I wanna make sure i have new weave for the occasion lmfao
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