Arguing In A Relationship, Is it passion...or a sign

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  1. mr.rip

    mr.rip New Member

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    Arguing In A Relationship, Is it passion...or a sign




    I've heard different things from different people. Is arguing in a relationship good or bad? Is there a point to where you argue so much that its obvious you need to seperate? Or is the arguing a sign that you care this much about a person that youre willing to waist you breath trying to make the other person see where your coming from on things...trying to make them understand how you feel...etc.?
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  2. i think its good, but its even better if one of the two can come to a conclusion following the argument, that would turn the negative energy to a passion
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  3. Musica'

    Musica' Pick your poison.

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    Theres a difference, I think a few occasional arguments keeps the relationship fresh, healthy, and intresting. (make up sex is all worth it) but yea, NO ONE gets along 24/7 so a few bickers are bound to be tossed in any direction.
    I think there comes a time when you need to step back and really evaluate whats going on when you're fighting over the dumbest and most irrelevant things, then something needs to be done.
    Arguing everyday all the time isn't not healthy.
    I used to pick arguments with my ex just cause he was funny when he was made, it made me smile and by then I wouldn't even remeber what I was picking on him for and we'd just laugh the little argument off.
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  4. R-Tistic

    R-Tistic Your favorite DJ

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    ***Starts singing Ne-Yo's song***

    I think it depends on what the arguing is about, and how often it happens. For some reason, tension seems to stimulate feelings sometimes....with it being good sometimes, and stupid at others. I've noticed that when a girl seems to be mad at a dude, or complains about him...whether it's serious or not...it's obvious that he's in her head.
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  5. UnbrokeN

    UnbrokeN Well-Known Member

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    ^^you gay
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  6. R-Tistic

    R-Tistic Your favorite DJ

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    LMAO, why, cause I'm singin Ne-Yo's song about thinkin a female is sexy when she's mad?
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  7. Flow-Joe

    Flow-Joe Annyong!

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    Arguing is gonna happen. No too people are exactly alike. It the differences that make us like each other. But like the homey said, if the majority of you arguments are about little shit, then you really need to evaluate where you're going.
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  8. RealMS

    RealMS Ne te quaesiveris extra

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    Depends what the arguing is about, I would say.
    Sometimes arguments arise because one person didn't realize what he/she was doing to make the other upset in the first place.
    And the way the person who is upset approaches the other with the problem may not be the best way.

    Built up frustration can lead to an argument that could have very well been prevented.

    Is it passion or a sign? Lol, I don't know. Couples are always learning something about each other everyday.
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  9. R-Tistic

    R-Tistic Your favorite DJ

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    Hmm...

    I think I'd say that arguing is not a direct sign of passion, or of something negative. However...I think a complete lack of ANY arguing or debating is a sign of indifference, in which the couple must not care about each other. I argue with EVERYBODY who I talk to on a regular basis...so if I don't argue AT ALL with you, then it must be some problem.
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  10. mr.rip

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    i know a sister in here that's not down with that make up sex shit lol looking over my shoulders at tight eyes haha.
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  11. Musica'

    Musica' Pick your poison.

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    lol, yo' make up sex is the best. I think it's more passionate.
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    mr.rip New Member

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    yes it is it is full of raw emotions those tears turn into fuck me baby
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  13. Musica'

    Musica' Pick your poison.

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    Word, sex is sex. Regardless eventually it gets kinda boring. Make up sex brings out feelings and emotions you've never even known you had. Fuck around and surprise ya' self. lol
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  14. mr.rip

    mr.rip New Member

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    Thats what i'm talking about hell I jump out my body like that show it's just jordan
    and be like look at me i'm beating that ass up then step back into my body lol
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  15. Musica'

    Musica' Pick your poison.

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    Ha Ha Ha Ha
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    what i really find funny is there are times when would argue the next day like we can't stand each other after we just fucked like there world was coming to a end.
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  17. Musica'

    Musica' Pick your poison.

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    Ha, that reminds me of that eminem song "Love You More"

    It's sick but who could ever predict we'd be doin' the same shit
    We say that we do it for our baby but we don't, we do it for us
    It's lust, 'cuz neither one of us trusts each other so we fuck
    'till we bust, 'till cuss each other out, we know what it's about
    Shout 'till I throw you out the house, you throw me out the house
    I throw you on the couch, punch you in the mouth, we fist fight
    'till we turn this mother out and apologize after, laughter
    Pain, it's insane, we're back in the same chapter again
    And it's sad but it's true, when i'm laying here with you
    There ain't nothing anyone could ever say or ever do 'cuz


    such a real song, the shit he says is crazy. LOL
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  18. mr.rip

    mr.rip New Member

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    true that shit is just a damn trip man
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    Musica' Pick your poison.

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  20. mr.rip

    mr.rip New Member

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    Have you ever picked a fight with your S/O just because you had nothing else to do lol just for the hell of it? haha
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