Are you woman enough to forgive your man or woman if he/ she only did it once? Or would you just call it off because you feel like you can't trust him or her? What if he got someone else pregnant or she got pregnant well she was cheating on you what would you do? How would you feel? Women would you let him have anything to do with the baby while you and him are married? Or would you tell him that your kids or child comes first because you and him are married. Men would you treat the child she had by this other man like your own? Or would you show more love to the kids or kid you and her brought into this world with more love? Keep in mind the kids didn't ask to come here.