Are you woman enough to for give your man or husband for cheating on you ?

Are you woman enough to forgive your man or woman if he/ she only did it once? Or would you just call it off because you feel like you can't trust him or her?

What if he got someone else pregnant or she got pregnant well she was cheating on you what would you do?

How would you feel?

Women would you let him have anything to do with the baby while you and him are married? Or would you tell him that your kids or child comes first because you and him are married.

Men would you treat the child she had by this other man like your own? Or would you show more love to the kids or kid you and her brought into this world with more love?

Keep in mind the kids didn't ask to come here.

you cheat once with me its over

its not the fact that u cheated that has hurt me--its that I no longer believe you.

It would be really hard to trust again, but if I did decide to give him another chance theres no way I would not let him see his children. Thats his blood regardless of the way they were concieved.

If you agree to forgive you have to wipe the slate clean and dare to trust again otherwise there is NO way it will ever work.

I would, and have forgiven and taken someone back under those circumstances.

however, if he woulda got the broad knocked up, I would be gone forever, or that bitch would need to get an abortion. I don't give a fuck...that's my life she would be fuckin up lol

too much baggage. it would be the kid or me. I suppose that's a very immature stance, but so be it. im far too needy and impatient to deal with baby mama drama.

plus that child would be a constant reminder of his infidelity. he could be in the lil bastards life, but I wouldn't. lol

sami keeps it realllll

^^ all day...the good, the bad, and the ugly of it

im gonna change your name to Dr Rip

lol

^LOL

And I agree with what Mist said about the trust

I have been cheated on, and it wasn't easy to say I forgive you and try again, but I did a month or so later. What made me say forget it was when I got cheated on again.

I'm just happy to see "you're not man enough?" get turned around for once. It seems like a way to get somebody to do something they don't want to do. But women always try and pull it, I never hear men say "you're not woman enough?". Bitch is like "stick you're hand in the blender". When I say "fuck that" it's like "oh what, you're not man enough?".

LoL @ jeff haha it's been a minute so i had to come back strong in here lol i'm not a dr. but i play one on TV lol besides that i love this form its like my new favorite. lol they took the alley from me lol.

Word.

Or you could just not cheat.Thats always an option.

Samii I like your honesty but DAMN. haha

^^ lol I feel u.

reflectively its a lil harsh/abrasive...but I can't help it. I know its not the "right" thing, but I dun care. all I can think about is me in tht particular situation

some peeps are just heartless

Mr Rip, have you written any poems about pussy lately?

lol go check out bed room bust it's not like the others but it's good so i've been told haha.

I don't think I could stay... especially if a child was conceived from the affair. My pride wouldn't let me. There'd be no trust.

I would like to think I could forgive and try to work it out... but... knowing me... if I did stay, I would do my best to make the rest of his life a living hell. I wouldn't want to live like that.

And I would never try to encourage dude not to be fully involved in his child's ife. Shit... I wouldn't/couldn't respect him if he did. Him and that lil bastid could just get the hell on.

WHOA.

Thats all i'm saying about that, sonny jim.

You sure can write about the jiggy box.

My role model lol