Are you ladylike?

Discussion in 'Ladies Lounge' started by tight-eyes, Mar 31, 2008.

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  1. Yea true, there are a lot of men like that, but its hard to live that way, because of the past, because of tradition. You see we stil have pre0conceived ideas of what we expect men and women to be like, and often they come out concioulsy or subconciously. I am betting most of the men you speak of have at least somewhat rejected traditional values and are at leasty partly feminists. I still think the majority of men carry tradiotional views about women, i think the majority of women still liked to be viewed in the traditonal way when it suits them, too.

    I look for a woman who has all the qualities you speak of, but if I am being brutally honest the reality of it, isn't perfect, because when these two people come together, the roles of being man and woman become blurred and each of you do not know what your role is. You can communicate ofcourse, but it is very hard to get rid of masculine and feminine expectation altogether. sorry for not making this a shorter post.
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  2. Dark_Sun

    Dark_Sun Phantom of the Forums

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    ^Interesting point of view though. I never looked at it that way to be honest...
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  3. Hidden_Poetry

    Hidden_Poetry New Member

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    LMAO @ Dutch oven their asses!!!!! [funny]


    Oh that's great.
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  4. what does that mean? dutch I mean
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  5. Porno_Lady

    Porno_Lady Educated and Beautiful

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    I'm more a tomboy sometimes... hence, one way I know that I am, is that I can not wear skirt, short skirts anyway or heels over 3 inches. My issue with wearing short skirts, is that when I wear jeans or shorts, I sit like a guy does, but when I wear skirts, sometimes it'll slip my mind that I have one on and I'll find myself constantly pulling it down, or having my friend or someone telling me I'm showing too much. I hate crossing my legs, ... so.... to prevent that, i just dont' wear skirts, at least not short ones
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  6. Dark_Sun

    Dark_Sun Phantom of the Forums

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    ^I still wanna see some pictures...just for informational purposes only...
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  7. skandelous_lala

    skandelous_lala back from the dead

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    I can act like a lady, but I prefer not to lol
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  8. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    being a "lady" is overrated

    "ladies" don't have any fun lol

    real talk, I'm not overly aggressive, because I feel as if I should be persued. But I am not prissy or ladylike at all. I like to drink and spit and swear. But I also love scrapbooking and cooking and my mom is teaching me to knitt! (go figure)
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  9. *ducks from sami's spit game* thats gross gurrrrrrrrrrrrrl. but i'm feeling you on the knitting. I knit like a real man, whatcha gone do?
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  10. Ignorant

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    I love ladies... but it's nice to meet a girl who doesn't mind having a few beers... but no fuckin' straw, though... that's some tacky shit.
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  11. you aint know that you get drunk quicker drinkin through a straw?
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  12. Ignorant

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    ^Probably so, but I don't know... some things is all about the presentation and handling... beer is meant to be sipped from a glass directly with the mouth so that you can smell the aroma as you're drinking... it adds to the flavor and the ambience... maybe if you're drinking Bud Light, you can do it differently... I'm a beer snob.
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  13. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    thats right you better duck! my homie James spent many many years teaching me how to spit when we were coming up and I'm damn good at it now lol (I was a lil tomboy back in the day)

    knit like a man...that's a new phrase. But me likey the whole unisexualism thats poppin off

    i just invented a new word lol
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  14. im down with the unisexualism
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  15. Ignorant

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    ^So you're a hermaphrodite now?
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  16. Gorilla Nasty

    Gorilla Nasty I'm lame TBH

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    Oh I get it, so no men have manners. Okkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk?????
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  17. Ignorant

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    ^Let Brit tell it... all men suck and should be castrated for holding women back since the beginning of time.
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  18. samii so sexii

    samii so sexii ..sunkist siren..

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    ^^ are you still on his back?

    I hope you're joking now
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  19. Ignorant

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    ^Why are you sweating me about Brit? Why don't you mind your own business?
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  20. MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN

    MiSt_Of_CoNfUsIoN Ray of Sunshine

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    Can't we all just get along?
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