are you feminine and dainty? Or more aggressive and masculine? Or do you fall somewhere inbetween? I have never considered myself to be ladylike, nor has it ever been anything I've ever desired to be. I cuss a lot (fuckin LOVE cussing too!!!), I scratch, I belch, etc. But I do have manners. I don't do that shit in public. I just consider that good home training. Some guys I've dated have told me I apprear/behave very conservative and "reserved", but I have never seen myself that way or as trying to "act like a lady". Some of my behavior happens to coincide with what others might deem "ladylike", but that has never been my intention. What does being a lady and ladylike mean to you? Is it something you [consciously] strive to be?