Discussion in 'Man Enough' started by Lost Prophet, Jun 17, 2009.
Or is it an issue?
i feel like a control freak and an insecure kid if i make an issue out of it.
i so when i do find myself thinkin i have an issue with it i pretty much ignore it cuz in the end actin out ever her having friends will do more damage.
i figure if you cant/dont trust to her to simply have friends or be friends with members of the opposite sex then you really shouldnt be in the relationship. which doesnt mean the thought of distrust isnt there, but its a self fulfilling prophecy and a personal head trip that needs to be left alone.
Don't really have a problem with it if she knew the person before I came into the picture. Just as long as the dude respect the fact that she has a boyfriend. A call or text is cool every once and awhile I guess.
But, if it's some cat she just became friends with after us getting together. I don't play that shit.
^^ pretty much.. unless they work together or some shit
I trust my lady fine....other guys around her, not so much.
I'm not really cool with it but I don't outlaw her having guy friends or anything. I just need her to keep it to conversation and if she's going to be hanging with any other guy there obviously needs to be a female buffer or some kinda group setting. Whole thing is awkward though.
^^ haha your sig is great
What a dumb bitch
nope im insecure
I ain't gonna lie. He's gotta be homosexual. Like Mind said except the text or phone call, because that's when that nigga ain't gonna be safe anymore.
Why would she need male friends anyway when she got a boyfriend?...I mean she can have female friends and that's good enough! Most women fall in love faster than men, and that could be a problem, if she hangs around with other dudes.
with that being said i agree with him too in the sense that i don't get all bent out of shape about her having guy friends, because i have friends who are girls.
it's all about trust. if you trust each other, nothing to worry about really.
only dudes i let my girl be friends with are either 1. my fam 2. dudes i know she was cool with before me and feel like fam more than friends
yes, plain and simple
i have a lot of friends that are girls, and i've hooked up w/ some of em b4
it's all about trust, and honesty
i'm fairly open about my relationships
I actually met my girl through her male friends.
I trust my chick so its whatever-
thats the single factor- trust- if you got a paranoid mindstate or you're sneakin around, you prolly wont do well wit ya chick havin male friends.
hell no my bitch know the deal i aint with that he just my friend shit lol
lmfao @ yall niggas lettin your bitch chill with dudes...niggas better listen to gucci:
^Or I can take my advice from someone that didn't name himself after designer handbags...
the wife to be got two homeboys from childhood...they coo with me...and have always been respectful...and its never been any slick shit...im not gonna rack my brain wondering if shes fuckin em just cause he txted her and said wsup...i dunno if id be coo with new male friends though...and she feels the same way bout me and females
maybe you'll listen to somebody name tom or willie or some shit then
i'm pretty sure when u catch your girl fuckin her "male friend" u wont be concerned about his name lmfaooo
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