You guys are really fucking it up. For everyone. You don't see how daQueen is playing you? Haven't you ever told a girl you just wanted to hit, maybe even have a regular arrangement, without a relationship? YES YOU HAVE. Now you're fucking it up for all men by making us look like hypocrites. DaQueen, who maybe would've let one of our brothers (and we're ALL brothers) hit with no strings attached, now she won't do it under any circumstances because of your answers. As for me, no, I won't pay for sex (i.e. No prostitutes). But if a chick says to me that she won't deal with me unless I spend my loot, I'd gladly accept that proposal if I was feeling her. Her asking me to spend money is just her way of knowing if I'm willing to commit to her..."invest" in her, if you will....and if she's eager to know if I really like her, then she must really like me too. If you just reconsidered and were honest, I'm sure all of you feel the same way.