ive been on and off with a guy for about 8 months he was the worst boyfriend. constantly standing me up. not being very open with me. all my friends were like "LEAVE HIM", but i wasnt hearing it i finally ended it for good when he stood me up on valentines day. but we still talk and stuff. we still hold hands and stuff and do sweet things like that. we still get busy and stuff too... the problem is, i cant cut him off. i feel like the only way i could cut him off is to meet somebody else. but i havent met anybody else. i mean, guys come up to me, but they just wanna bang. ugh, its so frustrating. if i cut him off, i wont have anybody, and then im gunna feel even worse. who knows how long it will take me to find somebody better. ...any of you ladies ever feel like this? what should i do?